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I picked up this book at the library, right before we left for the lake, and the facts inside have turned out to be our most used tool, besides our marshmallow sticks, that we use up here. Of course, I never anticipated this much interest in frogs; who could have predicted the lake would have been so abundant with amphibians? Did you know that if a frog’s eardrum is smaller than her eye, she’s a female. Vice versa for a male.

If I had to put my finger on my most valuable, money-saving resource as a Mom, it would have to be our library card. Our family’s first child librarian, Sam, was always quick to set aside books he knew my sons would love. Of course Sam got to know us so well because we did spend quite a bit of time there – sometimes we’d go two times a week for a new pile of “adventures” to plow through. Of course, there was the weekly story times – a built-in playgroup that never leaves your own house dirty. There were the mountains of parenting books, cookbooks and how-to books I’ve devoured — actually books, I still devour. The library has faithfully carried me through each phase of Motherhood.

Children go through a frenzy of fads as they work their way through adulthood. From trains, to Buzz Lightyear and Woody, Batman, Star Wars, and even Madeline, the library has abundantly supplied all the “eye candy” to feed my kids’ curiosity and hunger to know more. The DK books, with their generous diagrams and pictures, have entertained the boys for long stretches of time in the afternoon as they poured over their pages. How awesome that those books never collected dust on my book shelves; because the frenzy for Buzz was all too quickly replaced by an obsession for Pirate Ships. The books are still available at the library, for another child’s obession. If pressed, I don’t think I could put a dollar amount on the books that have passed through our hands at home.

For me, there’s always a movie, a juicy novel, or a magazine to pour over when they kids give me a break. Sometimes, I pinch myself: it’s all free. Still, I do my part to support our local library with our fines — very abundantly.

Of course, you can always pick up some hot blueberries to save your family some money, but be sure to back up your adventure with this great book, Blueberries for Sal.

Still, families need lot of help saving money today. The Parent Bloggers Network is introducing Couponers.com, a tailored on-line coupon service that gives you constant updates for the products you buy the most, at the stores you love the most. Check that site out, and then, grab the kids and head to the library. And, if you’re a blogger, you can join the PBN blog blast too. Thanks PBN, last week, I won $250.

Firefly Summer Takes a Strong Heart

Quentins, by Maeve Binchy, is a restaurant that serves as a meeting place in many Binchy novels. In this book, Binchy uncovers some of the clandestine meetings, heartbreaks, and stories of love and loss that have taken place in Quentins. The main character, Ella Brady, pulled me in, and I found Maeve to be a talented novelist, who know how to entertain and delight. Quentins, is nothing short of a delicious, saucy, plot-twisting great book.

For my recent trip to the lake, I picked up Firefly Summer, hoping to pull in the same penetrating characters, drama, and resolution as I found in Quentins.

The story in Firefly summer is also filled with dramatic characters, and Maeve is a master at giving us all the details of a lifetime in just two sentences. But the story here is much harder to bear.. this has been a tough read, full of hearbreak. My husband, watching some tears fall from my face as I read, asked, “Why do you keep reading it if it’s so depressing.”

“Because,” I said, “Maeve delivers not only the heartbreak, but also the lessons, the healing and the transformation that eventually comes as life continues to play itself out. For me, I must wait a lifetime for my own heartbreaks to be healed. Here, I can see almost instantly that time does bring healing, in surprising ways.”

It’s a lovely, lovely read.

The four-boy wedgie test: Hanes Passed

Some parents, just to avoid a scene, must avoid the toy aisle when they’re shopping with the kids. Not me… I have to avoid the “underwear aisle.”

True, one may assume, that because I have boys, clothes would not be such a big “issue.” Well, it is a big deal to these boys. Some mornings they ponder over which underwear to wear… and beg me to take them to the store for a bigger selection. I can’t make it out of Kohl’s without one of them finding their way to the underwear section, carefully selecting their attire. As toddlers, my boys were quick to understand that a well-dressed man included one who was well-dressed “underneath.” They quickly discerned the difference between plain white briefs versus the colorful characters of Buzz, Woody, Batman and Power Rangers. Generally, the underwear often became the costume of the day, as they ran around in their underwear and capes.

But when it comes to actually wearing the underwear under clothes, my kids go through a phase where they will just no longer wear underwear. “They’re too tight,” or “They itch,” or “They hurt me,” are common complaints. So they just wriggle them right off, and pull on their pants, and they’re off and running.

PBN asked me to get my boys to try out the new Hanes Comfort-Fit Underwear for Kids, and specifically Hanes No Ride Up Briefs. This was quite a challenge… no one wanted to wear the “whities, as they are truly “boxers only” kind of guys. That was until I proposed the wedgie challenge. “Hanes says these are wedgie proof,” I said. Soon, they were grabbing the package, fighting over who was going to put the pair first.

They tried to wedgie themselves first… no luck. It was only a matter of time before hands were down everyone else’s pants trying to pull up on the underwear… that truly did not “ride up.” After three washings now, the underwear is still tight and snug… I’m amazed and surprised.

Hanes also sent us three pairs of their “will not fly gap” boxers. The plaid colors were just what my sons love. The fabric is a poly-cotton blend, that withstands lots of washing. The waistband is thick and heavy, without digging into the sides. And, because the fly is made with a generous amount of fabric, there is no gap. No embarrassment in the locker room.

Both the briefs and boxers are snug without being too tight, and uncomfortable. No whining about wearing underwear for a change. The underwear is tag-less, eliminating that big complaint of the “itch.” Because of the snug waistband and quality construction, Hanes has lessened my challenge of trying to wrestle with them to get their underwear on in the morning. Hanes is opening up a whole new world to us. Plus, did you know that Hanes offers a guarantee on their underwear. Whether you buy them at the store, or on-line, Hanes will refund your money or replace the item, if you’re own tough customers are not completely satisfied.

On August 22, you’ll have a chance to win Hanes for your own kids. PBN will be holding a blog blast, on that day with all the details.

We also received three pair of the Hanes shaped to fit crew socks. The socks are made with premium yarns, and are knitted tighter to hug the foot, with a better defined heel, to keep that heel from slipping off and sliding right down into the shoe. Soft, tough a durable. How durable? One night, my son wore them outside, without shoes, to catch frogs. Not only did it protect his feet and keep them dry from the dew, but the socks soon became a not-so-lovely shade of dark brown and green. Even after walking on rocks, twigs and mud, there were no holes in the socks. I popped them in the washer for a long soak, and they did not shrink; nor thin out.

I’ll be heading to the underwear department soon to stock up on more Hanes underwear, now that school is starting. The kids are discussing what to get… should they go with the wedige proof whities? It’s a good time to go shopping, as Hanes underwear and socks are offering a free pair — just look for the specially marked packages. You’ll see me there, with the boys who just can’t decide which ones to take to the check-out counter.

Call the security guards, they’re here again

Apparently, there is something highly unusual about a Mom walking around the art museum, baby in sling, with three other little boys at her side.  Never mind the fact that the current exhibit just happened to be $10,000 - $3 million glass Chihuly Vases, standing, uncased, on glass podiums.  There was a hands-on educational program for the kids in the first floor of the art museum.  Part of the assignment was to go upstairs to view the current Chihuly exhibit.  At one moment, I looked up and noticed there were no less than four security guards circling our midst.  One of them, apparently the chief, stood back and talked into his walkie talkie, and said, “I’ve got them covered.”  We had no less than a four-ringed security escort through our entire visit.

This post was written for Parent Bloggers Network as part of a sweepstakes sponsored by Burger King Corp.

Keeping the produce fresher longer

You know I’m crazy for any tip I can find that will minimize my trips to Wal-mart at the lake. My kids love fresh spinach, bananas, organs and sweet potatoes. However, they barely last a week in the high humid conditions in the lake house.

While shopping for our last batch of produce, my son pulled out a box of Debbie Meyer Green Bags, “As Seen On TV,” from the produce section and said, “Mom, this will help us keep our food fresher.”

Intrigued, I threw the bags in the cart, and took them home. While I unloaded the car, my son read the instructions on the box: The box contained 20 bags, large and small.

  • Don’t wash the produce until it’s ready for use.
  • Put produce in bag.
  • Fold bag over to close – twist teas create holes in the bag.
  • Re-use bag 8-10 times.
  • Wipe moisture out of the bag as it accumulates.


So far, so good. The bananas are still green after one week. The onions have a strong odor, so I began storing them in the bags, in the refrigerator.

The biggest hassle is wiping out the moisture as it accumulates – almost every day. I came out with a fast solution – I take the produce out, and wipe it dry with a dishtowel. Then, I turn the bag inside out, so that the dry-side is against the fruit, and put the produce back inside.

Fly Me To The Moon

When I do manage to pull myself and the boys away from the lake… as late as possible, we’ll be checking out the new movie, Fly Me To the Moon, which opens August 15. A rated-G family movie, full of adventure. Just the thing to keep my 4-year-old from asking if I’ll take him to see the new Batman Movie… which isn’t an option.

I just watched the trailer for Fly Me To the Moon, and I am in love with this movie. Insects are flying to the moon, but they must keep it a secret from their Mom. The lines are based on the actual transcripts and the original blueprints from NASA, which adds “The Right Stuff” Drama to the entire insect mission. I won’t give away all the details… you can read more about them here.

This is the first animated film shot in 3-D for 3-D.

Baby, you have no idea how far I went for you

The year was 2000. Toy Story II had just come out on DVD, and my then 4-year-old dressed as Woody, then Jesse, then Buz,. Of course, Bullseye was a hopeless cause.

At preschool, my son saw this Buzz Lightyear Star Command Space Ship that his parents had dutifully bought for their own little boy. This was all my son talked about.. day and night. “How can I get these?” The ship had removable parts, and you could “Collect them All” at McDonalds.

The Easter Bunny was about to arrive. “Wouldn’t it be great,” I thought. “To collect the whole set for him from the Easter Bunny?”

So, I started my adventure. The problem of course, was that I don’t eat at McDonalds. I ate there a lot while pregnant, and I really have lost my taste for Big Macs. So, I simply pulled up to the drive-in window and just asked. The clerks gave me the toys. Unbelievable.

Pretty soon, I had 20 ships to carefully wrap up in the Easter Basket. It was hard, but I managed, to hold my tongue and not blow the whistle on my whole surprise, as he continued to pine away for the Space Ship.

On Easter Morning, I set the VCR, and waited in anticipation as he opened his basket.

He didn’t say a word. He grabbed his jelly beans and started eating, tinkering with the spaceship parts briefly, before moving back to his candy.

He could have cared less, and it did break my heart.

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Covering the deck again…

Last year, we used Sherwin Williams Deckscapes to cover and protect our deck at our lake house. First, we power-washed the entire surface, and then we started brushing and rolling on the 12 gallons of Deckscapes sealant. Oh yeah. Twelve gallons… no less.

The Sherwin Williams associates explained Deckscapes, water-based, and would protect the wood for at least 3 years.

The entire time we were brushing and working, I added up how much older the boys would be the next time we did this… and how much easier it would the next time.

We worked for hours, and days.

The deck looked gorgeous when it was done.

THe Deck, Sherwin Williams link,

However, after one winter, the sealant was gone. Completely vanished from the wood. After just one year.
We called the Sherwin Williams store. They explained that we should have used oil-based Deckscapes.

“That’s not what you told us.”

“The water-based product should have lasted 3 years anyway,” the store explained.

“It didn’t.”

“Did you power-wash the deck?”

“Of course.”

Eventually, Sherwin Williams offered to credit us the cost of 12 gallons of oil-based Deckscapes; which was wonderful of them.

Still, the process of staining the deck lies before us. Again.

I guess I won’t be needing the tutor…

My “hot stuff” kindergarten graduate needs to work on his reading skills this summer so that he’ll be able to hit the ground running for first grade. His nutcracker friends were packed away with the Easter Bunny. A tutor, he would have, if we weren’t at the lake. But here, the only tutoring that goes on involves mastering this fine skill: Just how do you get the roasted marshmallow off your stick, onto the graham cracker without dropping it our burning your fingers in the process. That’s pretty much all we’re doing up here. Still, the first day of school looms ahead,and I’d like him to feel confident and ready.

But what exactly are the skills my kindergartner needs to master? If you’ve ever had the opportunity to sit behind a little kid’s table for a parent-teacher conference, you know that the teachers provide you with an avalanche of information about spatial awareness, number differentiation, phonics awareness, letter recognition, and comprehension. Each child learns differently, and in the microcosm of education, each child needs different tools. Knowing this, I ran to the library and filled our bag with a variety of books – hoping reading a lot would take care of everything.

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PBN also sent me LeapFrog’s brand new Tag Reading System for ages 4-8, along with three books: Ozzie and Mack, Kung Fo Panda, and Chicka Chicka Boom Boom. This set is heaven-sent. This is why I love the tag:

LeapFrog® Tag Reading System is a pen the child holds like a pencil. When he started kindergarten, my son’s biggest struggle was developing the muscles he needed to hold the pencil. Now, he’s happily engaged with his TAG, holding the TAG five or six times a day, building his muscles without even realizing he’s doing any work.

The TAG reads the words my child doesn’t yet know. My son holds the TAG over each word, and the pen miraculously says the the mystery word. How? A custom mixed-signal ASIC with a 32-bit RISC processor, of course. The TAG’s audio stereo system allows absolute position detection (so it reads exactly were he points the TAG). Event memory monitors my son’s progress with real-time playback. Each book is coded with an optical pattern system, licensed from Anoto, so that the TAG can determine the precise location in the book. So the TAG can jump all around the pages of the book (the way kids do), and the TAG follows right along, identifying each word or character on the page. Miracle technology.

The Tag is easy to use. Once I downloaded the stories onto the TAG, just like you load your I-Pod, my sons took over the TAG and were instantly playing games, reading stories, and creating nicknames for themselves with the TAG. Never once did they ask me for help, and I never picked up the instruction manual. They were off and running in seconds. I had more trouble figure out how to download the stories on the TAG than they did figuring out how to use the TAG. Here’s a tip. Make sure your TAG is off when you open the software. Once the software is loaded and on your computer, then turn on the TAG.

The technology advances along with my son. There are 3 levels to the TAG – you pick the level yourself by choosing 1, 2 or 3 stars. A beginning reader can use the TAG to read the entire story. A comfortable reader, who needs help, can use the TAG to help him when he gets stuck on a specific word.

GAMES! The biggest benefit is that each games requires you to think back on what was just read to improve reading comprehension. The TAG’s built-in game logic processing makes this feature the most entertaining part of the entire TAG to my son. He sits on the sofa with his brother, playing a reading comprehension game and they laugh and laugh and laugh at the TAG. The characters are engaging, funny and humorous. The stories are almost like an interactive movie that lets you highlight and repeat the funniest character’s favorite sayings. One mediates by chanting “Ommmmm marshmallows….” Incidentally, these games engage my 12 and 10-year olds too.

More GAMES!! One of the biggest problems little readers have is discovering the difference between a “b” and a “d.” Teach them the logic of the word “bed,” (b comes first, and it’s the head of the bed…) and yet it’s still too much to grasp. They need practice — the TAG gives them the right amount of practice to decode these letters, so that the recognition comes automatically.

Silly Songs and Rhyming:
The best, silliest songs come from Ozzie and Mack I highly recommend this as a must-have book to go with your TAG investment. There are silly songs your child can create on his own, while creating lots of rhyming patterns, funny nicknames for themselves.

But is he learning anything? I know that my son has a book in his hand much more often than he would if he were depending on me to sit and read with him – he reads with the TAG at least five or six times a day. I also know that his hand muscles are developing a good “grip” to help him with all that writing he’ll be doing in first grade.

Still, I hear an awful lot of laughing and singing going on – “Are you learning anything, babe?” He says “No!” So, I try to sit down with him with the pile of library books I checked out for him, I see much more confidence. He’s plowing through the pages much more quickly, he’s paying attention to every word that appears on the page — he used to skip, making “I am” as “I’m.” He is learning — but he’s truly engaged in what he’s learning. Here’s another benefit that may or may not be related to the TAG – he seems to be more eager to read. He doesn’t see sitting down to open a book as a chore; he wants to sit down and the sofa and discover what the pages in this book have to show us. I was surprised, as I was afraid that all the bells and whistles from the TAG would make plain old books boring. Instead, the opposite seems to be the case. So, I feel good about the Tag, and I highly recommend you get one for your child, if you have one ages 4-8, and especially if he or she struggles with reading. The tag retails for $49.99, and the books are $13.99 – Meijer had them for $12.99.

I noticed the Tag books are now on display at Meijer. The kids quickly pulled Sponge Bob and Square Pants off the shelf and pleaded, “Can we have it.” I bought it. Now, thanks to that book, and all of the talk about Krabby Patties, he knows that “bite” is “bite,” and not “dite.”

The Movie 66

I have a preview copy of the movie… I’m watching and I’ll be back with my review. See the trailer right here: