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I picked up this book at the library, right before we left for the lake, and the facts inside have turned out to be our most used tool, besides our marshmallow sticks, that we use up here. Of course, I never anticipated this much interest in frogs; who could have predicted the lake would have been so abundant with amphibians? Did you know that if a frog’s eardrum is smaller than her eye, she’s a female. Vice versa for a male.

If I had to put my finger on my most valuable, money-saving resource as a Mom, it would have to be our library card. Our family’s first child librarian, Sam, was always quick to set aside books he knew my sons would love. Of course Sam got to know us so well because we did spend quite a bit of time there – sometimes we’d go two times a week for a new pile of “adventures” to plow through. Of course, there was the weekly story times – a built-in playgroup that never leaves your own house dirty. There were the mountains of parenting books, cookbooks and how-to books I’ve devoured — actually books, I still devour. The library has faithfully carried me through each phase of Motherhood.

Children go through a frenzy of fads as they work their way through adulthood. From trains, to Buzz Lightyear and Woody, Batman, Star Wars, and even Madeline, the library has abundantly supplied all the “eye candy” to feed my kids’ curiosity and hunger to know more. The DK books, with their generous diagrams and pictures, have entertained the boys for long stretches of time in the afternoon as they poured over their pages. How awesome that those books never collected dust on my book shelves; because the frenzy for Buzz was all too quickly replaced by an obsession for Pirate Ships. The books are still available at the library, for another child’s obession. If pressed, I don’t think I could put a dollar amount on the books that have passed through our hands at home.

For me, there’s always a movie, a juicy novel, or a magazine to pour over when they kids give me a break. Sometimes, I pinch myself: it’s all free. Still, I do my part to support our local library with our fines — very abundantly.

Of course, you can always pick up some hot blueberries to save your family some money, but be sure to back up your adventure with this great book, Blueberries for Sal.

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When I do manage to pull myself and the boys away from the lake… as late as possible, we’ll be checking out the new movie, Fly Me To the Moon, which opens August 15. A rated-G family movie, full of adventure. Just the thing to keep my 4-year-old from asking if I’ll take him to see the new Batman Movie… which isn’t an option.

I just watched the trailer for Fly Me To the Moon, and I am in love with this movie. Insects are flying to the moon, but they must keep it a secret from their Mom. The lines are based on the actual transcripts and the original blueprints from NASA, which adds “The Right Stuff” Drama to the entire insect mission. I won’t give away all the details… you can read more about them here.

This is the first animated film shot in 3-D for 3-D.

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When I was growing up, my Grandma, bless her heart, was in her 70s, a widow, and had raised 7 children, most of them, by herself. She had over 50 Grand and Great Grandchildren. Not until PBN asked us how we handled gifts from the Grandparents, did it occur to me that Grandma’s gift obligations for birthdays and Christmas for all of those little loved ones amounted to thousands of dollars, and covered virtually every week of the year.

With the constraints of living on a fixed income, and most of her monthly government check heading towards doctors visits, and utilities, life gave Grandma little opportunity to shower her little babies even one gift at Christmas. Because, if you give to one, it’s only fair you give to all. I’m wondering now, how Grandma must have felt to see each child, empty handed, year after year on Christmas and birthdays.

Empty-handed, is probably not an accurate picture. Grandma spent most of her time in her tinny little kitchen making hard-tack candy, popcorn balls, taffy, peanut brittle, thumbprint cookies, and soft butterscotch candies wrapped in waxed paper. The hard-tack candy was the most labor-intensive. The slab of marble, pouring the green, red, yellow hot syrup, and reading that candy thermometer until the temperature was exactly right. And who could forget that little bottle of wintergreen flavoring?

As the youngest of all her grandchildren (not counting the Great Grandchildren), my brother and I seemed to have a soft spot in Grandma’s heart. I know this only because I overheard her, several times, slipping dollars into my Mom’s hands, and say, “get the kids something just from me for Christmas.” (Grandma didn’t drive.) My Mom would always push the money back into Grandma’s hands, as Grandma insisted that Mom “just take it.” As much as I hate to admit it, I’m sure she did that for all of her Grandchildren. Grandma would have loved to have access to the Grandkids Gift Guide, as it would have put so much power in Grandma’s hands, and taken all the guess work out of finding the perfect gift.

Still, Grandma, now that I’ve had time to reflect on what matters most in life, I want you to know that it wasn’t whatever it was Mom picked up at the five-and-dime store, which she and wrapped to put under the tree from you to me. I don’t remember much about whatever toy that could have been. But, your green popcorn balls — those were the best. You made them so big. Their enormous size made it impossible for us to get our teeth around them for one big bite. And the green, that light green color, saturated every single sweet-popped kernel.

Grandma, I know you thought those popcorn balls weren’t enough; that you wanted to give something that we could keep, and hold longer after Christmastide had past. Honestly, Grandma, those popcorn balls that so quickly disappeared in our bellies, is the one gift that I’ve held into my heart for over forty years. Thanks again. Grandma. You gave the best gifts. I miss you, so much.

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Hats off to Nabisco for paying attention to what kids really want: the box. A toy comes with the current box of Ritz Crackers; there are no crackers to dig through to find the toy; there are no hazardous leads or plastics, and no choking dangers. Just a simple box that can be transformed into a simple make-it-yourself toy; the kind kids love best.

And kids, be sure to check out the games on the Ritz web site.

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It only took one traumatic cavity, that cost my son two teeth, that inspired me to invest in this toothbrush, Oral B S-320 Sonic Complete Rechargeable Power Toothbrush. (No one, unfortunately sent my anything for free, I’m just writing this review because I love this product, and teeth are so important.) This is the same one my dentist uses. I looked at the dental bill for the tooth pulling, the costs of the spacers, the trauma, and at four mouths, and I realized this was a great investment. An investment, truly, in a good night’s sleep. Don’t even bother with those character-battery operated ones; they can’t even touch this workhorse.

In the 3 years we have owned ours, we’ve had perfect check-ups. And that laborious, nerve-wracking tartar scraping procedure is almost “nil,” as the toothbrush does such a great job of keeping it off the teeth.

A two-minute timer, is great for the kids, and sets a habit. Plus, this tool gets you’re teeth gloriously white.

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We spend three hours with the kids in the car, one-way, to go to the lake. How do we stand it? Audio books. Jens Hewerer from Giddo invited me to try out the new audio story “Billy Brown And The Mystery Package.” Action-packed, this audio book is complete with sound effects, professional voices and a complete audio experience. My 6 and 4-year-olds loved it, and have popped the CD in several times to listen to the story again and again. Now, the 9-year-old is listening.

And like Hewerer says, “The audios are professionally produced with full cast voice acting, music, and sound effects that hearken back to the days of radio dramas and it’s potential for imagination.”

You can get your own free download of this award-winning audio adventure “Billy Brown And The Mystery Package” at www.Giddio.com! So, click here, and get it on your I-tunes library for your next big trip.

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Maybe, deep down inside, the Mama did know, but didn’t want to face the inevitable truth. So tempted, I am, to use her real name, because it is a delicious one, but, I will call her simply, Roxanne. Roxanne was wealthy, by small-town standards. Anything Roxanne wanted, Mama bought for her two daughters. If you had observed them, you would have witnessed an easy-going rapport, that implied that the trio was close. Squabbles were rare, and they all shared the same taste in clothes, jewelry and books. Yet, when I watched Roxanne and her sister unwrap the packages from their latest trip to the mall, I felt sorry for them. The extra money came from the government; Daddy never made it home from the war.

Roxanne was also very popular. Especially with the boys. In true, Romeo and Juliet style, Roxanne fell deeply in love with every Mother’s worst nightmare. The town fighter, the town druggie, and the high-school drop-out. I’ll call him, Rocky. Dates, phone calls and visits were strictly forbidden by Roxanne’s mother. This, of course, made the romance all that more exciting. Love always finds a way, and with Roxanne’s brand new car, she drove to his house every day after school, while her Mom was busy at work. Rocky’s Mother saw Roxanne as an elixir of motivation for her son. Roxanne could “turn him around,” the Mom dreamed. This romance was his ticket.

The after-school visits soon turned to overnight ones. How did Roxanne pull those off, you ask? Simple. She simply told her Mom she was at my house. Roxanne’s mother called our house only one time. Not to check up on her daughter, but to simply ask her where she put the cookie sheet. My Mom answered. “No, Roxanne isn’t here, and I haven’t seen her for months,” my Mom honestly said. Roxanne’s mother laughed on the phone, and said, “Well, you certainly don’t know what your daughter is up to, because Roxanne has been spending quite a bit of time at your house with your daughter.” We had a very small house. Roxanne would have been hard to miss. Roxanne’s Mother had a severe case of “Ostrich Parenting.”

You could have put the book, Mama Rock’s Rules: Ten Lessons for Raising a Houseful of Successful Children, into Roxanne’s Mother’s hands, but you could never make her read it. Yet, this book, would have been the perfect straight-talk-about-parenting-advice that Roxanne’s Mother needed to hear. Practical, down-home advice, yet radical to her, that would have put things back in perspective, and put the Mom, the rule-maker, back in the driver’s seat. Rose Rock raised ten kids, and 17 foster children; and she’s proud of every one of them. Roxanne’s Mom could have benefited from Mama Rock’s advice about the role that family meal times serve in parenting:

Once the kids get a full stomach, things loosen up. They not only eat the beans — they spill the beans. Everything would come out at the table, especially the secrets. The higher the comfort level, the more talk came out.

Looking back now, I rarely remember a family meal around the table at Roxanne’s house. They were one of the few families to have one of the early microwaves. A tool that liberated them to eat whatever they wanted, whenever they wanted, so they could freely graze whenever they felt like it. This seemed to create an aura of “isolationism” in the family. Everyone was “on their own.” The girls relished this independence.

Roxanne’s family’s loosey-goosey family rules lies in direct contrast to Rose Rock’s household. In her book, Rock outlines her formula for teaching kids what’s expected, and how structure and consequences keep kids feeling secure. Tough-love rules, that will, in the long run, make your job as a parent much easier over the long haul; especially through the teen years.

The whole thing with rules is this: it’s all about responsibility. When you make guidelines, it makes life easier, it manages expectations. Don’t wait! Start early and start them young.

Mama Rock does give advice for starting them young, with an eye toward preparing them to make good decisions for the day when they will be without you. When you run downstairs to the laundry room, tell your little ones that you’ll be gone for a few minutes, and you expect them to stay right here and color in this book. When you come back upstairs and they have done that, praise them. With a wide-open view to her own family-table discussions, Rose reveals that life is never easy as a parent, and we are never prepared for what life throws at us.

I had already become a single parent when I moved with three young children to South Caroline from New York after the death of my husband. Those were hard times, even for the little things. I didn’t know cars didn’t come filled with gas until after Julius died.

This book is not a memoir, although the antidotes tell quite a few stories. This is a parenting manual, that teaches you how to be tough with your kids, but still show them your love. The book is full of wisdom, and humor:

I want to share with you one of the most important things I learned in parenting. NEVER ask a yes or no question, especially when it relates to crime and punishment. Don’t say, for instance, “Did you break that cabinet door?” Forget it; you’ll never find out because the answer will always be no. Nobody knows “nuthin’” ever.

If no one comes forward to discuss a mess, Wait a day or two. Then, let your children think you already know what’s going on. Sit down with the suspected culprit over a bowl of ice cream or have some cookies together — nice and casual. Phrase your question like this: “When you did this… “

I enjoyed this humorous, tough-talk parenting book, which was sent to me via the Parent Bloggers Network, much more than I thought I would. I’ve found myself picking up the book, time and time again, just to hear Rose talk, like a good, old, wise friend. And especially for this advice for the cookie jar:

The cookie jar should be kept at a kid-appropriate level so they can get at them when the time is right. Our cookie jar was not forbidden; it was no big deal. When we said to go ahead and have a few cookies, that’s exactly what they did. No one had to sneak.

What a difference, maybe it would have been for Roxanne, if her Mother had taken the same stance with boys, and not just the cookies. So, what happened to Roxanne? The romance faded, but not until it had done considerable damage to Roxanne’s habits and her reputation. Years later, when Roxanne’s Mom would pass my Mom on the street, she’d stop her and say, “My daughter was at your house that night,and you didn’t know it.” This used to really tick my Mom off.

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There’s something about watching a child struggle and finally make it to the top of a slide, a tree, or, in my house, a cabinet, that warms my heart. To watch that spark ignite in their eye when they make up their mind, “I want to get there…”, to watch them struggle and fall many times before they master the physical challeges of the climb, and then to finally make it. How can anyone not cheer for even this tiny little victory they have mastered. Childhood is too short, and the pressures of life come bearing down all too soon on a kid’s world. Climbing is a hard-won victory that teaches kids, “I can handle anything from here.”

I’ve made it no secret here that my boys do indeed, like to climb. But, unlike most boys I know, my boys are very conscious about fashion — what’s in and what’s not. They take great care in picking out their clothes and shoes… even my four year old.

I was asked to order two pairs of summer shoes from the Vincent Shoes,™ website from their new Spring/Summer 2008 line. Vincent is graciously picking up the tab. (Big Thanks!) Vincent shoes were created by Swedish designers Patrick Österman and Thomas Elbaum, after their personal disappointment with the lack of high quality, stylish children’s shoes. The inspiration for the shoe’s designs come from what the pair’s creative eyes see on the runways of Paris, Milan, London and New York. Regardless, of where the fashion inspiration for these shoes came from, my boys were instantly attracted to the tough traction on these shoes. Plus, these shoes come in blue; the traditional Batman color.

As we began our search on the company’s website, and page through pages of shoe selections with my boys on each knee, we stopped when we came to the product description for Oskar:

Oskar has all the elements necessary to grow into a stunt man. He climbs onto the countertops to reach the high cabinets then leaps down without a second thought. If your baseball is knocked out of the park, he’s the first one to scale the fence to get it back. His favorite pastime with friends is horseplay.

Had the shoe designers been reading my blog? How did they know that this is the exact perfect shoe for my boys? We added this one to our shopping cart for the 6-year-old. Still, we had one more pair of shoes to order. There was admittedly, some whining because of course, my 4-year-old felt that his climbing skills warranted Oskar too. His tears soon stopped when he spotted Bobby. As his mother, I like Bobby because, as the website description explains,

“Bobby, is made for small children who need a little more protection for their feet.”

Still, this shoe has the same tough traction super heroes need to scale walls and fences. The shoe is built for speed,

“That playful energy is also why we put a contrasting speed stripe along the side of Bobby – to make them feel like they’re crossing the finish line every time they take off.”

That’s all my son needed to hear to fall in love with Bobby. The website has a sizing sheet, which you print out, and then have your child step on, to see which size you need to order. The shoes arrived within two days. Oskar fit perfectly, with just a bit of room to grow through the summer. However, even though I carefully measured for my 4-year-old, the shoes were way to big. I used the words, “He’s swimming in these shoes.” So, immediately, my son said, “You mean I can swim in these?!”

I called the company’s toll-free number on Friday, 1-877-816-2368, and the representative suggested that I order only one size smaller. “It’s March, and you want these shoes to last through the summer.” While I was on the phone, she had already e-mailed me a return authorization, and a UPS mailing label to send the big pair of shoes back. (Although, it did take some negotiating to get these shoes off my four-year-old’s feet.) The new pair of shoes arrived Tuesday (that fast!). This pair, again is still too big… but it’s April, and I want them to last through the summer. He seems to have no trouble maneuvering around in these “bigger” shoes. And the kid’s got two jobs this summer: to grow and climb.

Yes, these shoes are a slightly higher price point that shoes you will find in most mass-merchandise retail outlets. Keep in mind, though, these shoes are real leather, including a leather foot bed. The leather will stretch and give with your child’s foot over the summer, unlike that cheap vinyl that digs into their precious little porcelain skin. These shoes are rugged and durable, and you probably won’t be running out in August trying to replace a pair of sandals that have broken straps and buckles. That said, these shoes are really a bargain!

To help you out, you can get 20% off all full-price items through April 30. Just use this code, “SPRING-DEAL-8.” Plus, there’s free shipping on all orders over $75. Their handy shoe fitter is easy to use. Or you could also visit their retail stores if you want to try them on first.

This review brought to you courtesy of The Parent Bloggers Network.

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